Maulana Nusrat Abbas Bukhari

Maulana Nusrat Abbas Bukhari
 
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Location: Qum
Nationality: Iran

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Kuch arsy say mery sath yun ho rha hai k mein jb bilkul akeli hoti hun to m sakoon or khush rehti hun, mjy khuda mehsoos hota hai magar jesy he m kisi s bat karti hn like working place pay ya apny gar m kisi s bat karti hn to jesy he ye Allah ko mehsoos hony ka rabta toot’ta hai mein bht be chain ho jati hn mera dil gabrata hai, mein depression m chali jati hun. Ya kbi agr m outing ya shopping wagera k liye niklun to b m bht depression m chali jati hn mjy kya karna chahye? Esa koe rasta ya amal k jis s ye rabta na tooty ?

Yeah ache baat hay kay apka duniya main dil nahe lagta, but Islam humain jahan, ibadaat aur Allah subhantala say rabtay ka hukum daita hay wahan Socitey main rehna aur sab say rabta rekhna bhe sekhata hay. Kionkay ager Allah subhantala kee makhlooq razi hoge, Allah subhantala bhe razi hoga Logon say baat kerna , milna bhe Allah subhantala kee khatir karain tu app hamesha khoosh rehain gee

Droodh kee ik tasbeh din main perhain. Fajar kee namaz kay baad Astagfar kee ik tasbeh perhain

InshahAllah sab thek hoga

Facing very serious problem but not finding a solution. My anger is the only hurdle between me and my Allah. Whenever I feel anger I feel like I'm away from Allah. I want to feel him all the time. I try to stay cool but at working place whenever people do wrong or try their tactics to lower my position my anger comes out. How i can control my anger?

Best is you do Astagfar and recite salwat

How to ask Allah swt for the reappearence of Imam e zamana atfs in namaz e shab

You can pray in dua e qunoot, dua faraj.

I'm suffering from low spirituality since many months now. I don't know if it's because of my self which needs spiritual purification or my surroundings. I'm living in (Location removed) where there's no one I know who's a Shia and my parents too Non-Shia. I'm in taqiya from all. But it didn't matter during the first year of my reverting. Why then now I'm facing difficulty? If it's due to lack of spiritual purification then could you tell me the steps I need to follow in order to get purification

Definitely sorroundings have effects but you have to check your routine.
Do astghfar 100 times after fajar. Spend some time on prayer mat just examining your self.
Do tawasul with imam e zaman ajtf

My son sometimes says that bhoot ke khwaab aa rahe hai? Shayad woh cartoon me kuch dekha hoga fir ayatul kursi aur naade Ali padhke hum sulaate hai usko agar fir fir utha hai!. what should I do, koi taveez pehna de use? he is just 4 yrs old

Ayatul kursi and Nad e Ali is the best along with 4 surrah Qul
Also control his Tv times and better to involve him with physical activity games

I have a question about a experience I have . It's about a girl of (removed) that is born is in the (removed) (western life).
She is known as a silent person who is smart and who is being known as a person with a good Akhlak (good intentions)and sensitive heart. She is a real walking example for everyonewho sees her culture, religion and everything. Altough she is from inside not that happy at all. She has really abusive parents who are hitting her mentally and physically and are always telling her that she is doing nothing right and telling her that she is a satan and her dad is also calling her by animal names like donkey.
Her parents both have negative opinions towards her. Like they are not satisfied with her and really unthankful with everything what she choses. They think everything she does is haram and is against the shariah law.
The girl is a really inteligent person who is a great inspiration that cannot be denied by everyone and I think its disrespectful and a shame that those parents are acting like that to her. While no one can deny she is also a inspiration towards their own parents and family.
I understand that parents want to protect her from everything but what her parents are doing is really disrespectfull! And can be done on a different way!


The girl herself has stood up for her rights multiple times but nothing happend and it made it only worse like her parents got more abusive and are hitting/beating her and closing her up like an animal.

My question is what are the right of daughter especially an adult woman . And do you have any tips to that young lady the most broken part of all is that she is from the outside always really happy while in reality she is dripping blood from inside. One of her muslim teachers recomended her to go to a psychologist but her mom told her not to do that (afraid for a real shame towards her and a husband) and told her that Allah is her psychologist and to always ask him!
And is it allowed for parents to deside when to let their daughter wear a hijab. Cause she started wearing it from a young age (also in an abusive way like her mom screamed to do that). The girl herself did not have any problems to start wearing a hijab but my opinion its disrespectfull to force that way!
Her parents are only decdiding everything for her while she may not decide anything at all other wise they say everything is haram what she decides.

Well this issue is due to the environment they are living in where parents have fear.
Definitely they love her but they way they are behaving is not good.
I think parents need to be told that if she uses her rights in westren society then they can't do anything. It's better treat her with love and respect. On the other hand that girl has to understand the meaning of life. It's her test while being good human because Allah subhantala tests good people. So she needs to pass through this test as well.
Better find good person for marriage and live the way she wants within the limitations given by Isla,

What are the ways to make strong connection with Sayeda Fatimah Zahraس?
Like To be her true lover?
And how can I give satisfaction to her heart?

Tawasul with Hazrat Zahra SA, Hadees e kisa at least once a week. Do wajibaat so she will be happy. Focus on different angles of life which includes: Ibadaat, home, child upbringing. A women have to fill all; must be helpful daughter or sister or mother or wife.
One thing that is most important is tawasul with Imam Zaman ajtf

Kuch time pehly me ne ap se aik question kiya tha ke me confuse tha apni shadi ke liye cause me kisi aur ko pasand karta tha and meri ammi meri shadi kisi aur se karwana chahti thi.
Me ne sabr kia aur us larki se February me shadi kar li. Because mera dil nai tha us larki ki taraf to is liye me marriage consummate nai kar saka.
Meri job UAE me to me shadi ke aik week baad hi job pe aa gya.
Mera ab dil nai karta ghar jany ko aur na mera dil karta h ab ghar walo se baat karny ko.
Can you please guide me ke agar marriage ko itny time tak consummate na kia jay to nikkah rehta h ya nai?

Behtar hay app apni ghar jain and try to live with that because life is short. Hurting someone will create problems in your life


اغا میرے کچھ سوالات ہے جس کی وجہ سے میری زندگی بہت تباہ ہو گئی ہے.

میں وسواس کا مریض ہوں.ارت اور نجاست کے مسائل میں بری طرح گرفتار ہوں. کوئی نھی مجھے پسند نہیں کرتا ہے اور میری بیماری کی وجہ سے لوگ مجھے پاگل کہتے ہیں… حتی میری بیوی بھی میری بیماری کی وجہ سے مجھے پاگل کہتی ہے اور بہت تکلیف دیتی ہے.

میں اب اس قابل. ہی نہیں ہوں کہ وسواس سے لا پرواہی کروں… مجھے کچھ سمجھ نہیں آتا ہے… دل کہتا ہے کہ مر جاؤں کیوں کہ مجھے کوئی سمجھتا ہی نہیں.. مجھے بہت تکلیف ہوتی ہے جب میری بیوی بھی مجھے پاگل کہتی ہے.

میری زندگی میں کوی نہیں ہے جو مجھے سمجھے… بہت دپریشن میں ہوں.

میں کیا کروں کے میری طبیعت ٹھیک ہو جائے. مجھے کوئی میرا. مددگار اور خیال رکھنے والا مل جائے… اور میری بیماری کو سمجھنے اور اس سے نجاے میں مدد کرے… کیا عمل کرو… کیا دعآ کرو.


اسکے علاوہ میرے وسواس کا حل کیا ہے… میں دبئی میں رہتا ہوں اور مال مارکیٹ آفس ہاسپٹل جاتا ہوں تو کوئی بھی جگہ اگر ہاتھ لگ جائے تو پاک کرنے لگتا ہوں کیونکہ ہر جگہ پوچھا لگانے والے غیر کتابی کافر ہے. … واشروم بھی کئی گھنٹے جاتا ہوں اور مجھے پیشاب کے خطرے نکلتے ھے اور انگلش واشروم میں اسےبرا کرنے نہیں آتا ہے. اپ ایک عالم ہے اور روحانی طور پر باپ کے برابر ہے… میرا کوئی بڑا نہیں ہے جو مجھے سمجھے پلیز میرے لئے راہ حل بتائیں.

Iska best hal ignorance hay. App tawajho he nahe dain, husnay zan rekhain kay jaga paak hay kionkay jab tak nijasat ka yaqeen nahe tu masla nahe.

Ziada serious na lain kuch chezoon ko. Aehsta aehsta change karain. Allah subhantala say dua karain.

Peshaab Kay qatroon ka ilaaj hay, pani ziada pian, white chanay kahain bhonay hoye, masany kamzoor honay kee wajha say bhe qatray atay hain, relax reha karain. Islam easy religion hay.

I would like to increase the noor in my heart and change my aklaqh, to be a person with a pure heart and to become optimistic.

I am used to read duas and zyarat everyday, but I just realised that doing all these, without a good aklaqh, is not efficent.


Please, do you have some advices that I can do. I try but still disturbed by shaytan.

Alhamdulillah you have realized. This is also a blessing.
Try to listen to lectures available online.
My Ramadhan 2019 lectures will help you InshaAllah.
Other thing that is important is your relation with others, behaviour,
positive thinking, doing work on it's time.
These things help you InshaAllah.

My engagement has happened but I am in love with another because she is good behaviour and good manners and does all the wajibat. Please give any dua or namaz to help me.

Me apni kaifiyat pesh kar raha hun wo ye ki me namaz se shab daily padta hun aur tauba wa istegfaar bhi karta hun. Jab raat ko akele me ye karta hun to aisa lagta hai ki khuda se karib hua hun aur sukoon milta hai but jab subhe hoti hai aur din me masroof hote hai to apne daily routine ki tarah ho jata hun aur gunah bhi hojate hai but maloom nahi hota to aise me kya karu. Aur ek ye baat pareshan kar ke rakkhi hai ki me jisko pasand karta hun wo college me sath padti hai aur ham baat karte the daily aur islamic baate kiya karte the aur problem bataya karte the but ab ham ne choud diya hai. But dil us jagah par laga hai aur baat ye hai ki jab dil bechain hota hai to khuda ke samne munajat karne me lutf aata hai. Mene kitni koshish ki bhula ne ki aur dua bhi but nahi bhul pata. Aur jaan na ye hai ki khuda mere se razi hai ya nahi aur Imam e zamana a.t.f.s ki mulaqaat ki tadap kaise laye?

App acha kaam kee try kertay rehain, yeh manajaat jab bhe muqa milta hay karain. Baqi jahan engagement hay wahan dil lagain. Life short hay. Don't live in your past. Future ka soochain.

Kindly tell me that how I'm able to know that Imam-e-Zamana (ATFS) is agree with me, I mean whatever I'm doing (Aamaal) in my daily routine He is seeing all that, so if I want to know that Imam Mehdi (ATFS) is happy with all my activities or not then what can I do or how can I able to know that?
Kindly, explain me in detail what I do to make my time of Imam agree and happy with me.

Wajibaat per amal karain, check it relationship around your family freinds, concentrate on your studies,
Quran recitation, make people around you happy, helping others, find in which field you will be specialist and serve Imam e Zaman ajtf
This way you will be near to Imam e Zaman ajtf

My parents recently set me up with a man for marriage purposes; however, I just don’t click with him. He’s a nice guy when it comes to religiousness but other than that I feel like we’re not compatible which is why I just don’t feel any sort of attraction towards him. I don’t enjoy our conversations neither do I look forward to getting to know him. Is it okay to reject a religious person just because you don’t click with them? I have been so confused and would really appreciate any advice.

There is a hadith if a religious proposal come don't ignore otherwise fasaad in society will come. My advice is accept this proposal inshaAllah things will be more attractive

Mujhe ek relative ne bataya ki mere betay ko us kaafir ladki ke chakkar se mowakkilon ke zariyae alag karne ko. Maine istikhara dekhaya toh achcha aaya.
Par kya en good helping jinnat (mowakkilon) se kaam karvana jayaz hai ya haraam?

Every work have effects if you do it.
You don't know how they work. There is good way and bad way also so I don't know who and how they working


Aur pls dusra amal yeh bhi bataiye k mai unko apni taraf kaise rakhun. Pehle kabhi aisa nahi huwa hai. Aaj kal bohat gusse mei rehte hai mei. Unse baat bhi nahi kar pati hu. Ek hi room mei dar dar k rehti hu k kuch baat pe gussa na ajae aur hamare soch vichar mel nahi kha rahe hai mei kuch bolna Chatti hu woh kuch ka kuch matlab nikal lete hai. Baat khatam hone se pehle hi puri baat bhi nahi sunte. Mashallah se namaz mei bhi paband hogae hai 3 time masjid jate hai yeh bohat khushi ki baat hai mere liye q k pehle kabhi aise paband nahi the. Yeh dosto ki wajha se masjid mei jane lage hai per unhi dosto k wajha se unka bahar jana bohat zyada hogaya hai. Dinner dosto k saath phir ghar pe bhi badi badi dawat karte hai wohi dosto ki phir bhi phone sab chalta rehta hai. Mere dil aur dimag dono kaam nahi karta k kya karu kaise karu har baat pe gussa ajata hai time nahi dete hame. Please kuch bataiye aisi koi dua ya namaz jisse yeh masla hal hojae. Mei nahi chahti k unke dosto k saath rishta tute per kam hojae hum sabko unki zaroorat hai.

Insaan kamzoor hay, ka bhe kuch acha hota hay kabhe kuch. App apni tarf say pora acha kijye. Indirectly aeshaas dilye
aur ager kisse dost say family relation hain tu unko mesage dijye balance life zarore hay but ghar main bhe sakoon hona chaye tabhe koi ghar per tawajhoo daita hay. App namaz main dua kijye
Allah subhantala halat behter farmain
aur thora relax rehain. App bhe busy rehain takay unko aehsaas hoo

Sawal yeh k jab bhi koi acha kam krta hu ya kabhi thode dino tak namaz regularly padne lagta hu ya sadka dene lagta hu aur jab dusre ko dekhta hu k ye namaz nahi pad raha hai ya gunah kr raha hai to dilme ghamand mehsus hone lagta hai. Me boht koshish krtahu k isse bachu , pata hai yeh neki ko khajata hai, aur buri baat hai pr dil se nikaltahi nahi.
Kya karu?
Koi solution hoto please.
Me try krta huto k sochu k bhai me to kuch nahi sab Allah ka diya hua hai pr nahi horaha kuch. Ek baat mene suni k (Jalan agr ho aur aap uspr kuch na bole na act kare to aapko koi nuksan nahi hoga ) kya yeh baat ghamand k liye bhi same apply hogi?

Qaswsa hay ziada, dehaan na Dain.
Astghfar karain 100 times after fajar

I would like to ask regarding the guidance of Imam. In each time, every ummah met the imam of their time and were able to be guided by the Imam of their time. How about this ummah since our imam is in ghaibah , there are those that died without the guidance of the Imam of their time. My question is will they be allowed to be among the soldiers of Imam, and that they will be guided again or?

Not everyone in past met Imam of their time but they received guidance from Imam through different channels. So we are receiving guidance.
And those who really spent their lives as Imam e Zaman ajtf wants, they will back at the reappearance of the Imam inshaAllah.
Therefore it is recommended to recite dua e Ahad 40 days continuosly after Fajar prayer.

As youth living in the West, what’s the best of advice you could give us to prepare for the reappearance of Imam Mahdi AJTFS so that we are able to always serve him?

You can listen to my recent majlis of Muharram you will find ways.
In short whatever ur profession is try to be perfect in your field, enhance your abilities, be a specialist of your profession and do Niyyat that all you doing for Imam e Zaman ajtf. Work on your soul, while reading Quran and munajaat

Kya Aisa ho sakta hai koe insaan bahoot zyada gunahgar ho Aur imam ke mohabnat dill me rakhta ho, to kya wo Apne App ko imam k liye tayyar kar sakta hai imam Ause Accept karege

Kion nahe. Touba ker Kay apnay app ko paak ker Kay Imam e Zaman ajtf kee khidmat main pounch sakta hay

My son is in love with a mushrik(polythiest) I want to know some dua or wazifa to break this haraam relationship. My son is not ready to listen anything

Read Namaz e Isteghasa of Imam e Zaman ajtf
InshahAllah HE will help

Please maulana aisi kuch dua ya Amal bataiye jisse hamara beta kaam kaaj karna shuru kare. Ghar ka business hai toh bhi kaam pe nahi aata. Bohat samjhane k baad bhi kuch farq nahi hai.

Read hadees e kisa and tawasul with Hazrat Zahra SA

From which book can i get the waqea of lives of ayatullah. Which book can i get waqeas of Normal people meeting Imam Mehdi(atfs)

If you find ahatullah shaheed dastagheb book of daastaan, I think it's available in Urdu

Is it okay to curse someone and pray for their destruction and pray bad for them from Allah (S.W.T)?

It's not good to pray bad, even if they did bad with you. Pray for their hidayat, and for getting back to normal life for them and for yourself. Only we can curse enemies of Allah and Ahlebait the way they teach us. Life is very short to be negative for others. Spread love and be happy.

I am a young sister from (removed), striving to become one a sincere & devout follower of the Imam of our time عج. but unfortunately i feel as if i constantly fail him through my sins & intentions, & i am honestly seeking advice on how one can attain the pleasure of the Imam & eventually become a member of his عج army Insha’Allah. do you have any advice?

First thing is ur concentration, your deeds, daily routine, relationship with your family, the wajibaat, namaz, reciting Quran, helping others, daily Dua Ahad after fajr. So start from small and increase it slowly and pray for reappearance.

As we read in Dua e Ahad that raise us along with our Imam. So first, at what age will we be revived? Second we say that take me out of my grave using my shroud as dress, so a person who knows to fight will only be able to fight or even other would be able to fight because of spirituality? Third in dua we say (walmustashhadina bayna yadayhi) and those who will be martyred before him. what does this line means?

Your first question about age, the answer is related to 2nd question as person comes with Kafan means that age he died, but after that he got powers or anything happens.
The Dress is sign of good deeds in person life, i.e Taqwa, so person fights with spiritual powers but it doesn't mean that we don't have to be active physically in our present life.
Related to Shadat are those who martyred before reappearance of Imam e Zaman ajtf also having a place , but we pray that we want Shahadat in his hands or in his army.

Earlier I used to stay separate with my wife and kids but now since some time my mother has come to stay in my house due to some health reasons . Now i do not have any separate room thus this affects my privacy with my wife . I have a wajib duty to take care of my mother but also there is a body need too which needs to fulfil. I stay disturbed and cannot concentrate on my work and ibadat because of not having physical relationship with my wife . In this situation is it permissible to masturbate to relieve this problem .

No you cannot, it's better to find some time while kids not in room or when they are sleeping or you can arrange somewhere else.

So saying I did this or that to scholar is not recommended, but what if I want to let it out

In ahadees it's not recommended to inform your sins to other and you already did astagfar then better to avoid, but still you want some advice to away from sins you can ask

When someone is doing sins and he repents should he talk to a scholar about it

Better not to tell own sins to other, definitely scholars are like doctor. When we are not be able to hide our illness to doctors because he will not give exact medicine, same scholars helps to keep ourselves far from sins and motivated to good deeds.
We can ask about sins in general, it would be better

I have been struggling with a sin for quite some time now, but have had little success in quitting. I've struggled for years and have tried many different methods to quit, but nothing has helped. It leaves me wondering why Allah SWT has not granted me a way out of it. Am I doing something wrong on my part that may block me from receiving Allah's help? I'm confused why He has not granted me the ability or means to stop this sin that I have been struggling with for so long.

Quiting sin required good deeds on other areas, like helping someone, respecting parents, offering salat on time, reading Quran, utilizing ur time, sports, and avoid that things which lead you towards sin

There is a brother who is committing sin regularly and is unable to stop. He tried but failed after many attempts and continues to ask for Allahs SWT forgiveness every time he commits it. After some time he went to the local imam for advice.

The local Imam told him that the sin would be almost impossible to stop. The Imam recommended the brother should get married saying that people with the same sin as his usually stop the sin after marriage and their faith increases.

This brother is still a student in a very demanding program which takes a lot of his time, but he and his parents have tried searching for a wife anyway. They have been searching for a long time now with no luck. What should the brother do at this point?

There is a salaat of esteghsa from Hazrat Zehra SA for marriage which our teacher recommend. You can find in shiatoolkit as well

The one thing i don't really understand that if wearing hijab on hair protects women’s dignity, then why do men not have to wear it

It's not for the man simple
but in fact wearing turban for men was common that time

My question is about Hijab. I understand that due to the difference in the biology of male and female, we have different needs. However the thing that i do not understand is why women have to cover the hair and neck, while men do not; of course, i understand men have awrah and hijab obligation too, but why do they not have to cover their hair?

Your answer is in ur question, they are created different biologically and they have different feelings, different needs etc

Hijaab of women save her dignity plus family relationship plus society needs.

Man is hard, decision maker, have mange family etc so he have to live different way in society

In short all is about obedience