salam maulana sahab, meri wife ko kabhi kabhi mere bhai ki ya mummy ki koi baat buri lag jati hai to woh mujse share karti h. jab woh mujse gusse me share karti hai or mere gharwalo ki burai krti hai toh muje bhot bura lagta hai. ab aise me mai agar apne gharwalo ki side se bolun to usko bura lagega or agar uski han me han milaun to usko or mauka miljayga burai krne ka, ajeeb pareshani me fhas gaya hun mai. plz batayen k mera reaction is halat me kaisa hona chahiye

Balkay dunno Kay dermain mohabbat peada karain
Aur na hee ghar waloon Kay dermain Beth ker wife ko bura bolain
Thora strick hona perhta hay
Chote batoon per tawajho mat dain
Ignore karain
Baqi namaz main sub Kay liye dua karain
Indirectly baat ko convey karain
100 times salwat perh ker hazrat Abbas AS kee walida ko hadiya karain
Inn shah Allah mushkil hal ho Jaye gee.