I’m a little bothered that women were 'forcefully' made to bed unrelated to them against their wish – as being considered as spoils of war.could you pls assist me with a logical and/or Islamic explanation?also, could you pls shed light on the marriage of Hazrat Safiyya bint Huyayy, with details on whether iddah period was observered since other 'sources' hint that there was no 'waiting period'

Where were women forcefully made to bed unrelated to them against their wish? Prophet never did or allowed that. There was always a procedure in each and every marriage.

Yes indeed she observed iddat according to the traditions available to us.