I want to ask you a question regarding my husband wanting to take my daughter to Karbala for Arbaeen I love all of our Imams but i think because she is going to have just entered the high school it is not the right time but my husband thinks he should take her and not mind about her studying. she has also been before and she does know the story of Karbala So i just want to know am i wrong for not wanting her to go because of her school or is my husband correct ?

One suggestion is perhaps you can see if they go for ten days for example, if you can get the schoolwork that she will miss and complete the assignments outside of school. She could do the school work on the flight or set aside sometime in the hotel to do some of the work there.